Apparently, paying attention to ourselves long enough to resolve our own issues, is so rare, it’s thought of as a “leadership” skill. If that made you cry or cringe, I’m completely with you. The truth is several industries and governments are built on the idea that most of us, really have no interest in accountability, self-reliance, or resolving problems in general. We won’t admit it, but, we enjoy the “convenience” of paying someone to be a band-aid on our personal issues, rather than going within, excavating undealt with trauma and recurring problems.
